a free course from b.
Somewhere that is not home and not work.
Most of us run one loop: home, work, home. Two rooms and the road between them. The third room — the café counter, the library table, the bench by the courts — quietly disappeared from most lives, and we feel the missing air without knowing its name.
This course is built on Ray Oldenburg’s idea of the third place, and it keeps his defining rule strict: no host, no invitation, nothing owed. You walk in because the door is open. You become a regular by showing up. That is the whole application.
the path
start anywhere. begin once.
begin here
one
Pilot Episodes
three short stories
What a third place is, why yours went missing, and how to find one this week.
two
Oldenburg's Eight
ten short stories
Oldenburg’s eight characteristics — the doctrinal spine of the whole idea, from neutral ground to a home away from home.
three
Why They Disappeared
ten short stories
How third places disappeared: cars, zoning, rent, television, and what the loneliness numbers actually say.
four
Cafés, Counters and Bars
ten short stories
Cafés, counters and bars — finding a place with chairs that stay, ordering the same thing, sitting alone without a laptop.
five
Libraries and Public Rooms
ten short stories
Libraries and public rooms: the last free spaces, and how to use them like a regular.
six
Outdoors and Open Ground
ten short stories
Outdoors and open ground — parks, benches, dog parks, farmers markets, and the year-round weather problem.
seven
Places Built Around Doing
ten short stories
Places built around doing: gyms, run clubs, barbershops, yarn shops, makerspaces — where the activity is the excuse.
eight
Becoming a Regular
ten short stories
Becoming a regular: frequency over intensity, calibrated small talk, weak ties, and reading a room’s unwritten rules.
nine
When There Aren't Any
ten short stories
When there are not any — auditing your ten-minute radius, suburbs, night shifts, no-money options, and starting one where none exists.
ten
The Online Question
five short stories
The online question: what Discord gets right, what a screen cannot replace, and using online to find offline.

