module 6

Games and Sport

Games and sport as social scaffolding — board game night, pickleball, backyard volleyball, and managing the competitive.

10 articles

  1. 1

    Games as social scaffolding

    You don't have to be charming to host well. You just have to give people something to do with their hands.

  2. 2

    Board game night, set up right

    The game matters less than the table you put it on.

  3. 3

    Card games worth learning

    A deck of cards is the cheapest, quietest hosting tool you will ever own — and most of us never learned how to use it.

  4. 4

    Backyard volleyball

    The net is the only invitation you need to give.

  5. 5

    Pick-up sports without the ego

    A game where everyone's managing how they look isn't a game. It's an audition.

  6. 6

    Pickleball and the low barrier

    The best invitation is the one where being bad at it is part of the fun.

  7. 7

    Bocce, cornhole, horseshoes

    The best party games are the ones that leave your mouth free to talk and your feet free to move.

  8. 8

    Competitive people, managed

    A night doesn't fall apart when someone wants to win. It falls apart when nobody said what the night was for.

  9. 9

    Teaching a game without lecturing

    The rules aren't the game. The game is the game — and your job is to get people into it as fast as you can.

  10. 10

    When there are kids in the mix

    A child at the edge of the table isn't the evening falling apart — it's the evening beginning.